Impostor Syndrome:
noun
- the persistent inability to believe that one's success is deserved or has been legitimately achieved as a result of one's own efforts or skills.
I feel like this in my relationships right now, too. I'm not very good at cooking, I have the ability to keep house but I hate it so I do a sub-par job. I make quite a bit less money than my partner so obviously I'm not contributing enough. I feel like my parenting skills are lacking and I'm probably going to break my kid. Again, logically I have the data points to refute these claims, but I can't seem to get past this.
I don't have any advice. I can't tell you or myself how to feel better. I can tell you that I am making lists of the things that I know to be true so that I can go back and read them. It seems to be helping at least a little bit.
s.m.